I thought perhaps it was just me that was a raging mean person in the morning, thereby making waking up early and homeschooling by 8 am a virtual impossibility.
After a quick Google search, though, I found that I’m not alone. I was actually surprised at the depth of some of the discussions I stumbled upon on the subject.
In my ongoing quest to bring attention to the road less traveled, I decided it was time to discuss homeschooling when you’re not an early riser.
Here is a rambling of a few things I’ve found helpful in our situation.
THE IMPORTANCE OF A “FLOW”
Each day has its own progression. Soccer practice and getting the neighbor’s children from the bus stop always happen on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Most of my “day job” is done Monday-Wednesday.
There might be a few more things, but basically this means that everything else flows around these things.
Babydoll knows that in the mornings on my workdays she is to do all the schoolwork she can do on her own until lunch. After lunch, we come together to finish those things we must do together.
There is no set schedule for any of these other things, just a general outline for when they should take place. Add my husband’s crazy work schedule to the mix and we just don’t live in a house where we can always do math at X time and science at X time and so on.
We all know the flow. We all know the must-do items. Other than that, we kind of fit it all in as each day requires.
How do I keep myself on track? I have a digital Post-It on my Chrome home screen. I *heart* Incredible Start Page for Chrome.
The yellow Post-It is where I record the must do things for each day. This isn’t the note where I list “clean the bathroom.” That doesn’t have to be done.
Picking the neighbor’s kids up from the bus stop has to be done. Paying a bill has to be done. Getting certain work done by a deadline has to be done.
Another colored note will hold the “I’d like to get this done” things. Another holds the blog to do items.
This has worked amazingly well at keeping me organized.
THE IMPORTANCE OF A SELF-SUFFICIENT CHILD
I am one of those mean mothers that forced my child to learn to fend for herself as soon as she could.
Of course, I take care of her generally speaking, but if she happens to wake up before I do, she knows how to get her own breakfast, do her chores, and get herself ready to start her day.
I’d admit: I wasn’t into this idea when Vince first suggested it, but it’s been one of the best decisions we’ve ever made.
She doesn’t need me to take care of her, she knows how to get herself started each day.
Heck, even if I am up, I don’t do breakfast for anyone…
This also helps me get the stuff done each morning that I need to, and then we come together at lunch.
RECOGNIZING WHEN YOU NEED TO MAKE A CHANGE
This is a huge one, and one that I’m still currently fighting. I despise waking up early, I always have.
I remember the first thing my baby sister would tell people about me is that I was a cranky person in the morning.
She was four. That’s how bad I am in the morning.
Add to that the fact that we go to bed anywhere from midnight to 3 am every night, and I’m on a crazy schedule. Rolling out of bed at 5 am just ain’t in the cards.
And this wasn’t a problem, until I started working from home. In addition to the “fun” of my blog, I’m working as a social media maven and trying to write books, start e-courses, and other awesome stuff.
There’s only so much time in the day. There’s only so much time left after working and homeschooling and soccer and…
I’ve started thinking of ways to tweak the flow a bit. If I want to achieve all my goals, I might need to wake up earlier, which means going to be earlier.
It’s a sacrifice and I have to figure out if it’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make.
WHAT WORKS FOR YOUR HOUSEHOLD
I realize quite a bit of this may apply mainly to my household and our unique circumstances, but the meat of the issue can apply to anyone.
If you’re a night owl, you can make it all work, it just takes some out-of-the-box thinking and an open-mind toward adjustments that may need to be made.
Remember that you don’t have to do what everyone else is doing in their homeschools. Work at what’s right for your family.
Now let’s chat: what type of risers do you have in your home? How do you make it all work? Have any secrets to share?